How It Works — 4 Steps to Real Connections

Register Free & Verify Your Email

Creating your profile takes about two minutes. You'll choose a display name, add a real photo, write a short bio, and tell us what you're looking for — relationship type, age range, location preferences. We don't ask for your phone number or exact GPS location, and we never sell your data. After submitting, we email you a one-time verification code. This step alone stops most automated signups. That's the whole signup: about two minutes, one email, no app required — your email doubles as your login name and the address where your approval notice and match notifications arrive.

Get Personally Approved by Our Team

Every single profile is reviewed by a human before it goes live. Our team checks that photos are genuine (not stock images, not the default avatar placeholder), that the bio isn't spam, and that the person seems authentic. Approval typically happens within 24 hours. You'll get an email the moment you're approved — then you can log in and start browsing immediately. Nothing about you is public before approval: your profile stays invisible to other members until it passes. Reviews run in submission order, and the same team that answers support questions does the reviewing.

Browse All Verified Profiles — Free

Once approved, you see every approved member — no tier walls hiding profiles. Free members can browse the entire directory, filter by age, location, interests, and compatibility level, and receive contact requests from Premium members. Free members cannot send first contact requests, but they can accept them and chat freely. Every card shows enough to decide; Premium simply unlocks full-size photos and the ability to open the first conversation.

How to browse — the rules of the room

Browsing is organized into match-quality levels — one filter panel, one list, and a row of numbered circles at the top. Each level works a little differently, and knowing which ones you steer is the whole skill:

• Levels 1–7 — yours to choose, free for everyone. These groups sort the catalog by how well each profile fits your basic criteria — location, age range, what you're seeking. Levels 1–5 rank directory profiles by completion score; levels 6–7 rank member profiles by general proximity, computed fresh every time you load the page. Pick one circle, several, or all of them, and change your filters and searches as often as you like. You are never locked out: every approved member is reachable from some level.
• Level 11 😊 — double-likes, the strongest signal there is. Like anyone you want — likes never expire and stay invisible unless they're returned. The moment the other person likes you back, the two likes meet and become a double-like: you both appear in each other's Level 11 group, and the match shows in your compatibility report. No algorithm decides this — two humans did. That's why Level 11 is free for everyone and always will be.
• Levels 8–10 — not for you to choose. These are personality bands, computed nightly from your profile and your 15-question interview, and reserved for Premium members. You can't pick them from the filter panel, because you don't steer them — they describe where you already are.

Connect with AI Compatibility Matching (Premium)

Upgrading to Level 2 Premium ($10/month) unlocks two powerful features: (1) you can send contact requests to anyone, and (2) our AI matching engine analyzes your profile, interests, values, and preferences to surface the top 1–10 compatibility scores — people you're genuinely likely to click with. The algorithm looks at relationship goals, communication style, lifestyle alignment, and more. Messages in all chats automatically delete after 24 hours for privacy, and our standalone CryptoNotes app adds end-to-end encryption. Premium is month-to-month — cancel anytime from your account page, no lock-in. If you switch back to Free, your profile stays approved and visible; you simply return to browse-only.